Single mother: Shawna Steeves was asked by her daughter Meghan (both pictured) to be her date to the event at Southwest Elementary in Lawson, Missouri. The 30-year-old said she would be honored

Single mother: Shawna Steeves was asked by her daughter Meghan (both pictured) to be her date to the event at Southwest Elementary in Lawson, Missouri. The 30-year-old said she would be honored

Shawna Steeves’ 8-year-old daughter, Meghan, will get a dance of her own after the single mom said local PTO officials stood firm on a ruling that she could not be her daughter’s date at a father-daughter dance, reports ABC News.

According to Steeves, the president of the PTO said the group would stick to a “no moms allowed” policy for the Feb. 6 dance at Southwest Elementary School in Lawson, Missouri.

“One option they gave was that they [the PTO] would find a male substitute to take her, which was out of the question,” Steeves told a local TV station. “She told me that she didn’t want to make kids feel like outcasts. But where did my daughter fit in all of this? They didn’t even offer me a chaperone position.”

PTO president Kacey Collier did not respond to ABC News’ requests for comment, but issued astatement to a local TV station:
“Our PTO works very hard at creating events that give ample opportunity for all families to [participate] in throughout the year. Regarding the situation with this event there were several options given to this family and all families so that all Southwest elementary school aged girls are welcome to attend regardless of their family situation. Our goal is to keep this special event authentic. We offer many other events that are family oriented. Examples would be muffins with mom and donuts with dad, the family 5 k walk/run, pancakes with Santa, Trunk or treat and our mother son challenge. We are very proud of our organization and what we do for the students and our community.”

Steeves told ABC News that she initially thought she could go to the dance after the school principal gave her the OK to accompany her daughter.

“She was really excited,” Steeves said. “She said, ‘Mommy, I want you to take me.’ I thought, ‘OK, cool,’ but the flyer said, ‘No moms allowed,’ and her dad is not in her life.”

Disappointment: The PTO said Miss Steeves could not accompany her daughter to the dance because it would damage the integrity of the event. They told her any other male figure would suffice

Disappointment: The PTO said Miss Steeves could not accompany her daughter to the dance because it would damage the integrity of the event. They told her any other male figure would suffice

“One week later, we bought a dress,” Steeves added. “The next morning, I got a call from the principal, who told me that I wasn’t allowed to attend because of the PTO [Parent Teacher Organization].”

The principal of Southwest Elementary School referred calls to the district superintendent, Roger Schmitz, who said the decision on who could attend the father-daughter dance rested with the PTO because it was running the event.

A community service organization saw coverage of Steeves’ dispute with the school and offered to organize a separate dance.

“It’s open to all the students and they can bring any adult role model they wish,” said Antonio DeLaCruz, a member of Missouri Widows Sons Masonic Riders Association and organizer of “Meghan’s Dance.”

“Of course, she’s the driving force,” DeLaCruz added, “but there’s other kids in her situation that want to attend school functions like the father-daughter dance and they can’t.”